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PAS Youth: National celebrations causing baby dumping
PETALING JAYA: PAS is blaming Valentine’s Day and New Year celebrations as among the main causes of baby dumping in the country.
PAS Youth chief Nasrudin Hassan said the occasions were celebrated in an extreme manner and en couraged liberal socialising and free sex, which resulted in the act of dumping babies.
“Baby dumping is rampant especially during the months of July to September – the months are dubbed the ‘baby dumping season’,” he said yesterday.
Nasrudin also said the party would hold a roundtable discussion with non-governmental organisations and political parties on Aug 22 to discuss ways in which all parties could contribute to solving the problem.
He said there had been 15 cases of baby dumping between July and yesterday.
“It is an indication that the ‘mating season’ occurred during the New Year celebrations. We expect more cases between now and September,” he said, adding that the high number of cases of couples caught for khalwat(close proximity) was recorded during carnivals including the Merdeka Day celebrations.
He said the celebrations, which originated from the West, did not “sit well with our country’s traditions.”
“These celebrations put youths in situations involving alcohol and indecent behaviour,” said Nasrudin, adding that the Government should control such celebrations and entertainment outlets.
“These babies are born out of wedlock from irresponsible actions through forbidden relationships. If the babies were born through marriage, they would not be thrown away,” he said.
Nasrudin was responding to a news portal report yesterday quoting PAS Youth deputy chief Azman Shapawi Rani that such celebrations in the country were the main causes of baby dumping.
He urged the Government to look into preventive measures and not only dwell on punishment against the youths.
“They must review the education system to teach youths how to apply their knowledge of subjects like morality in everyday life, rather than merely feeding them information all day in schools,” he said.http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2010/8/19/nation/6881507&sec=nation
Punca Gadis Hamil Di Luar Nikah
Oleh Abdul Ghani Nasir
BANGI, 9 Jun 2010 - Dengan anggapan ‘aku tak mungkin hamil’ sesetengah gadis remaja rela mengadakan hubungan seks luar nikah dengan lelaki yang baru saja mereka kenali.Tidak kurang pula mereka ini termasuk wanita berkerja yang tinggal di bandar-bandar diajak teman lelaki mereka menonton VCD lucah lantas kedua-duanya ghairah hingga terjebak dalam maksiat. Akibatnya wanita terbabit melahirkan anak di luar nikah.
Malangnya, bukan semua teman lelaki mangsa yang mahu bertanggungjawab akibat keterlanjuran mereka itu. Memang ada lelaki yang hendak berkahwin tetapi dihalang oleh keluarga wanita, ada yang yang enggan menerima kehamilan pasangannya manakala ada pula yang takut selain tidak kurang pula yang terus memutuskan hubungan yang mereka bina dengan gadis terbabit sebelum itu. Bagi gadis yang malang itu keadaan diburukkan lagi kerana pandangan serong masyarakat terhadap kehamilan diluar nikah. Ada pula yang berasa malu atau takut perbuatan terkutuk mereka diketahui keluarga. Ini akhirnya mencetuskan fenomena ngeri lain pula – dimana bayi tidak berdosa yang baru dilahirkan itu dibuang.
Demikian rumusan Profesor Madya Dr Fatimah Abdullah, pensyarah Program Kerja Sosial, Pusat Pengajian Psikologi dan Pembangunan Manusia, Fakulti Sains Sosial dan Kemanusiaan, UKM mengenai isu hangat dewasa ini berdasarkan penyelidikannya mengenai masalah seks di luar nikah mengikut rekod yang terdapat di Jabatan Kerja Sosial Perubatan, Pusat Perubatan UKM.
Rekod juga menunjukkan hampir semua bayi itu kemudian dijumpai sudah mati setelah dibuang dalam tong sampah, dicampak dalam longkang atau ada ditanam dalam kubur cetek.
Statistik Ibu Pejabat Polis Bukit Aman menunjukkan 65 kes buang bayi dicatat pada tahun 2000 meningkat kepada 83 kes pada 2006.
Daripada 83 kes itu, 79 membabitkan pembuangan bayi yang baru dilahirkan dengan empat lagi masih janin. Selangor mencatatkan kes tertinggi iaitu 22 kes (2000) dan 24 kes (2006).
Sebab bayi dibuang belum dapat dipastikan kerana belum ada kajian khusus dijalankan, kata Dr Fatimah. Beliau menarik perhatian satu laporan akhbar mendedahkan kes sebegini biasanya membabitkan remaja yang terlanjur tetapi malu berdepan dengan masalah. Keadaan ini diburukkan lagi dengan sikap teman lelaki yang tidak mahu bertanggungjawab.
Remaja yang mengandung luar nikah juga menghadapi pelbagai masalah seperti disisih keluarga serta dibuang kerja.
Dalam menjalankan kajiannya, Dr Fatimah turut mendapatkan data terperinci faktor kehamilan, sikap keluarga dan perancangan masa depan remaja hasil temu bual dengan penghuni di Rumah Nur Adwa dari 2004 hingga 2008.
Walaupun terdapat 81 gadis berusia 15-19 tahun, namun dalam masa tersebut golongan berumur 20 hingga 24 tahun mencapai 118 orang manakala ada juga melebihi 40 tahun iaitu seorang janda.
Sebanyak 190 orang daripada mangsa menamatkan persekolahan menengah, 39 STPM dan kolej, 53 tamat sekolah rendah dengan 10 orang tidak bersekolah.
Dengan pencapaian pendidikan agak baik itu, tidaklah menghairankan 177 daripada mereka mendapat gaji RM1,500 dan lebih sebulan dan 81 di antara RM1,000-RM1,499 sebulan.
Namun, apa yang agak membimbangkan, kata Dr Fatimah adalah hakikat kurangnya pengetahuan gadis terlibat ini dengan perkara-perkara berkaitan seksualiti. Ini kerana kebanyakan daripada mereka tidak prihatin apabila haid mereka terhenti walaupun ini salah satu tanda kehamilan.
Lebih buruk lagi ada gadis yang masih tidak tahu mengenai fungsi bahagian badan dan sistem reproduktif mereka sendiri seperti perbezaan kedudukan saluran kencing dan saluran peranakan. Fakta ini didedahkan hasil kajian sebuah syarikat pengeluar alatl pencegah kehamilan.
Kajian rapi terhadap lapan gadis terlibat mendapati lima datang daripada keluarga tidak lengkap yakni keluarga ibu tunggal akibat penceraian atau kerana bapa telah meninggal dunia.
Dr Fatimah mencadangkan agar beberapa perkara diberikan perhatian dalam usaha membendung dan menangani masalah berkenaan.
Kebanyakan remaja atau wanita muda yang melanjutkan pelajaran tinggi atau bekerja di bandar dan jauh daripada keluarga biasanya tinggal bersendirian atau menyewa bersama rakan.
Ada kalanya, tegas Dr Fatimah, mereka ini tinggal serumah dengan teman berlainan jantina malah jika tidak menetap sebumbung pun kedudukan flat yang bersebelahan memudahkan teman lelaki atau wanita keluar masuk unit masing-masing.
“Sifat jiran tetangga khususnya di bandar yang sentiasa sibuk dengan pekerjaan masing-masing tidak dapat berfungsi sebagai sistem kawalan sosial tidak formal yang berkesan sedangkan majikan yang menyediakan kemudahan perumahan tidak prihatin mengenai hal tersebut,’ kata beliau.
Bagi pihak keluarga pula keengganan ibu bapa untuk membenarkan anak mereka berkahwin merupakan antara faktor remaja lari mengikut teman lelaki dan bersekedudukan sehingga hamil dan melahirkan anak.
“Perpecahan dan sikap keluarga ini kelihatan mempunyai kaitan dengan perlakuan devian remaja kita,” ujarnya.
Dr Fatimah juga berpendapat bahawa walaupun data yang ada tidak cukup untuk memberikan maklumat perkaitan antara didikan agama dengan penglibatan dalam hubungan seks sebelum berkahwin atau di luar perkahwinan namun pegangan agama yang kuat merupakan benteng utama dalam menghindari perlakuan devian.
Beliau turut menarik perhatian sungguh pun tidak ada maklumat mengenai pengaruh media dan hiburan terhadap masalah melahirkan anak di luar nikah, tetapi satu kajian pda tahun 2003 mendapati wujudnya hubungan yang rapat antara dorongan seks dengan gejala itu.
“Lantas kawalan dan saringan terhadap kedua-dua pengaruh dan dorongan itu juga amat penting,” kata Dr Fatimah.
Dalam konteks Malaysia, kata Dr Fatimah lagi, dasar dan program bersepadu untuk membantu remaja hamil diluar nikah hampir tidak ada. Hal tersebut mungkin timbul kerana tidak adanya data lengkap megenai mereka khususnya berkaitan latar belakang sosio-ekonomi, pergaulan dan hubungan hetroseksual serta pengalaman hubungan seks sebelum berkahwin.
Apa pun gejala kehamilan remaja diluar nikah ini perlu dilaksanakan dengan penuh teliti kerana ia turut melibatkan isu agama dan budaya yang berbeza di antara satu kaum dengan yang lain.
Kaedah yang dilakukan di Barat seperti penggunaan kaedah kontraseptif bagi mencegah kehamilan tidak boleh digunakan bagi remaja beragama Islam.
Fenomena ini sebenarnya adalah manifestasi kepada isu yang lebih besar lagi tentang kekalutan dalam struktur dan organisasi sosial dalam masyarakat. Sehubungan itu profail yang lengkap mengenai mereka sedang dikumpulkan kerana ia penting dalam merangka pelan intervensi dan prevensi.
“Ini amat penting bukan saja kepada remaja yang terlibat tetapi anak mereka yang bakal dilahirkan, khususnya daripada segi nasab, penjagaan dan masa depan mereka,” kata Dr Fatimah http://pkukmweb.ukm.my/news/index.php/ms/berita-penyelidikan/345.html
Negative Effects of Having Sex Education In Schools
Having sex education in schools could bring more negative effects than the positive ones.One of the negative effect is it will trigger curiousity among students to find out about sex and eventually they will involve in free sex.It is true that sex education is likely introduced to prevent pregnancy among teenagers as the students will be taught about methods of preventing pregnancy,but it doesn't mean that pregnancy will never happens.It is afraid that if these teenagers got pregnant out of wedlock,they will dump the baby right after they gives birth and the cases of baby dumping will never decreased.Apart from that,sex education in schools could be offensive due to religion and custom.It is because,sex is considered something personal and yet not to be talked about in the publics.Sex is also considered as taboo in eastern society.
Malaysian teachers say ‘no’ to sex education
KUALA LUMPUR: Malaysian teachers are saying “no” to teaching sex education in schools.
They lack professional training in teaching the subject, National Union of Teaching Profession (NUTP) secretary-general Lok Yim Pheng said Tuesday.
She said while the union fully supported the Government’s move to provide sex education in schools, “sadly, the teachers lack formal training in the complexity and sensitivity of the subject and are not confident to teach it.”
Lok said the teachers were afraid they might be sued by the parents “if they were to make mistakes in imparting the knowledge of sex to the pupils.”
Malaysia is a multiracial, religious and cultural nation with each ethnic group having its own notion on the subject, which made the teaching more challenging, she noted.
The NUTP is the country’s biggest teachers union representing 160,000 teachers, which is approximately half the teaching profession.
Lok said the union wanted the Education Ministry to first hold discussions with stakeholders on the pros and cons of the move before making a firm decision.
Currently, the subject was taught in “bits and pieces” from the primary level to secondary level, in the absence of a proper structured course.
Of late, sex education has become a very important issue in the country, with an increasing number of unwed mothers, many of them students.
Meanwhile, a Bernama survey among students, parents and teachers showed that all groups were in favour of sex education but were unsure of the form and content of the course.
Teenage student Jayaraman said he was all for it, but was unsure what and how the teachers were going to teach because “we have more girls than boys in our class and most of our teachers are female.”
Abdul Raof Bidin, 38, who has two school-going children, felt that it was necessary to teach the subject.
“It should be handled with care as it could easily be misconstrued and do more harm than good, if wrongly imparted,” he said.
Another parent, M. Arumugam, 44, believes it was better for medical professionals like doctors and nurses to impart the subject to students.
”Maybe the Education Ministry should consult the Health Ministry and come up with some kind of arrangement for teachers to be provided with on-the-job training,” he said.
Betty Lee, who has been a teacher for 24 years, felt that the subject was best handled by “teachers who themselves are mothers and know how to handle such a complex subject.”
”With due respect, not all teachers can teach the subject, and the ministry should be very careful in selecting the right candidate for the job,” said the 50-year-old ---- Bernama
School Of Hope's Student Gives Birth to Baby Boy
A baby boy weighed 3.6 kg was born on October 4th at Jasin Hospital.He became the first baby of School of Hope that was opened on September 17th. Melaka Chief Minister,Datuk Seri Mohd Ali Rustam was told that the baby would be cared for by the student's family,Datuk Seri Mohd Ali Rustam was the first who camed up with the idea of setting up this school for those who got pregnant out of wedlock.The school was also opened not just to protect the teenagers who got pregnant,it was also set up to curb the dumping of unwanted babies.
School of Hope
JASIN: The country's first school for pregnant teens, School of Hope, received its first enrolment of students here Monday.
The teens, accompanied by their parents, were first required to make their formal application at the Malacca Islamic Religious Department (Jaim) in Kompleks Al Azim in Peringgit, before heading to the school.
The first to be seen was a young Chinese teen, who arrived with her parents at the school's dormitory, House of Hope, located adjacent to it, around 9.15am.
Jaim's chief enforcement officer Rahimin Bani said prospective applicants were interviewed Sunday.
He said the four-stage application processs involved an interview of the girl and her parents, submission of medical reports, background check and counselling, before registration.
He said that Jaim would also liaise closely with the relevant government agencies, such as the state welfare and registration departments, and Syariah courts here, to ensure proper procedures were followed.
"They (the teens) want to continue their studies and sit for their examinations.
"This the main reason they are here to enrol," he said when contacted Monday.
On Sunday, Chief Minister Datuk Seri Mohd Ali Rustam said families of five pregnants teens had sought to enrol their daugthers in the school here.
The five, four Malays and a Chinese, will begin Form Four and Form Five
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